i don’t want to hear talk to you husband instead of us. I need a fresh perspective and some ideas to bring to the discussion table.
i do admit i am horrible with money. i can’t budget- i spend liek wanter and would run us into debt if i was 100% responsible. my hubby works/ i don’t and refused to put me in a jopint account – we fought -i won i got a bank card. then we agreed i would check with him with purchases. I bought new clothes i really didn’t need and because i snuck it and got caught breaking ou agreement i lost the card. I have to shop with cash now. he does give whatever i want/need – but just the idea of having no access to money drives me insane / makes me feel like a child. i have tried to control the spending but i always fail at my attempt and do buy a lot of sale items – but they add up big time. ANy solutions- or common problems. He doesn’t trust me with money and we do have a small budget but his solution feels extreme.
i admit he is great with money/debt free

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